What EMDR Therapy Actually Feels Like: Returning to EMDR Training 8 Years Later
Eight years after my original EMDR training, I returned for a refresher course and was reminded firsthand why EMDR therapy can feel so transformative. From processing my own distressing memory to experiencing EMDR virtually, this training reinforced something I deeply believe: healing doesn’t come from the therapist “fixing” you; it comes from within.
Why We No Longer Accept Insurance for Therapy (And What That Means for You)
If you've ever wondered why some therapists don't take insurance, here's an honest look at what that means — and how it can actually support deeper healing.
Returning to Work After Trauma Leave: How to Navigate the Transition Without Overwhelm
Going back to work after trauma leave isn't just about "getting back to normal." Here's how to navigate the transition in a way that actually supports your nervous system.
How EMDR Therapy Helps with People-Pleasing and Over-Responsibility
You know you need better boundaries.
You just don’t know why your body panics when you try to set them.
People-pleasing isn’t just a habit, it’s often a trauma response. Learn how EMDR therapy helps your nervous system feel safe enough to stop over-functioning in relationships.
EMDR Therapy for Childhood Emotional Neglect: When You Weren't Allowed to Have Needs
If having needs feels uncomfortable (or even wrong) this might go deeper than you think. Here's how EMDR therapy can help you reconnect with yourself.
What Is Bilateral Stimulation? Understanding How EMDR Helps the Brain Process Trauma
Learn how bilateral stimulation works in EMDR therapy and why it helps the brain process trauma, reduce emotional overwhelm, and support nervous system healing.
Why You Feel “Off” Even When Nothing Is Wrong: Subtle Trauma Symptoms in Adults
You’re functioning. You’re responsible. You’re holding it together. So why do you still feel anxious, irritable, disconnected, or slightly “off”? Many adults live with subtle trauma symptoms without realizing it. Trauma doesn’t always look dramatic; it can show up as overthinking, people-pleasing, emotional numbness, or a nervous system that never fully relaxes. In this post, we explore why you might feel “off” even when nothing seems obviously wrong & how trauma-informed therapy can help.
How Chaos in Childhood Wires You for Adult Burnout
If you grew up in a home that felt unpredictable, emotionally intense, or unstable, your nervous system may still be operating in survival mode, even decades later. This post explores how chronic childhood stress can wire you for adult burnout, and why rest might feel unsafe even when you’re exhausted. Learn how trauma-informed therapy can help you shift from surviving to truly living.
EMDR Therapy: Why Talk Therapy Hasn’t Fully Helped (And What Can)
If you understand your anxiety but still feel stuck, EMDR therapy may help where talk therapy hasn’t. Learn how EMDR supports deeper nervous-system healing.
How Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Supports Trauma Recovery
Trauma doesn’t just live in your thoughts, it lives in your nervous system. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers practical, body-based skills that help trauma survivors feel safer, steadier, and more in control of their emotions.
What “Trauma Processing” Really Means in Therapy
You’ve probably heard phrases like “processing trauma” in therapy, but what does that really mean? In this post, we break down what trauma processing actually looks like, why it goes beyond just talking about the past, and how it can help you feel safer, calmer, and more connected to yourself. Whether you’re navigating burnout, people-pleasing, or a bad break-up, this is your guide to starting trauma therapy with more clarity and confidence.
The Healing Journey: What It Really Looks Like (and Why It’s Worth It)
Healing isn’t a straight line—it’s a process of learning to feel, trust, and reconnect with yourself. In this post, explore what the healing journey really looks like and how therapy can help you stop surviving and start living.
Strategies from a Therapist on How to Travel with PTSD
When you’ve lived through trauma, even “good stress” like travel can feel overwhelming. This blog offers gentle guidance for navigating PTSD while on the go — so you can feel grounded, safe, and present wherever you land.
Why Facing Discomfort Is the Key to Healing Your Past
Avoiding uncomfortable feelings may seem like protection, but it often keeps old wounds alive. Healing begins when we face discomfort with compassion. In this post, we’ll explore why sitting with difficult emotions is the key to processing past pain, breaking free from people pleasing behavior, and finding true freedom.
How Trauma Affects Decision-Making and Risk-Taking
Trauma doesn’t just affect your past—it shapes how you make choices today. Many people who’ve experienced trauma find themselves stuck in patterns that lead to avoiding risks. These patterns often come from your nervous system trying to keep you safe. In this post, we’ll explore how trauma impacts decision-making, why it feels so hard to stop being a people pleaser, and how therapy can help reduce anxiety and build confidence in your choices.
How Therapy Can Help Break the Anxiety–Perfectionism Cycle
The anxiety–perfectionism cycle can feel impossible to escape. You try harder, do more, push further—only to feel more anxious. Here’s how therapy can help interrupt this loop and guide you toward self-compassion, resilience, and real relief.
The Hidden Anxiety Hacks You've Never Tried
Most anxiety tips sound the same—deep breathing, journaling, or meditating. But what if your brain needs something different? Here are a few surprising (but effective) ways to soothe anxiety that you probably haven’t tried yet.
The Real Purpose of Emotions: Why Feeling Isn’t a Problem, It’s the Path
Emotions aren’t weaknesses — they’re signals. Whether it’s sadness, anger, fear, or joy, your feelings are trying to tell you something. In therapy, we help you understand those messages so you can respond, not just react.
People Pleasing: Why It’s So Hard to Stop (and How Therapy Can Help)
Struggling with people pleasing? Learn why it happens, how it drains you, and how trauma-informed therapy can help you set healthy boundaries and reconnect with yourself.
What Dissociation Feels Like & How Therapy Can Help
Learn the signs of dissociation, why it happens, and how trauma-informed therapy can help you feel present and connected again.